"There are things that we cannot change and the decisions that others make is one of those. And in all honesty, a person cannot be in a healthy relationship unless they are ready and happy with themselves first. And there is no harm in that. Everyone is different. But as for others, it is EXTREMELY hard to just sit back and wait. And they do not have any obligation to do that. We are free to take care of ourselves and our needs. We can handle this and everything else that comes our way. EVERYTHING happens for a reason. And as such, problems too have happened for a reason and we will learn and grow from them."
and yes.. I'm learning from other people. Thank you for the wonderful advice.
